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新京报评女子“怒怼”高铁吃泡面:心中只有自己

新京报评女子“怒怼”高铁吃泡面:心中只有自己
2018-06-22 04:12 新京报
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  最近几天,网上流传着一段高铁吃泡面的视频:一名男子在高铁上吃泡面,被一名女子怒怼。视频中的女子怒吼“整个高铁都知道不能吃泡面”,情绪激动,且言辞激烈,甚至爆了粗口。

  从法律和规章来看,没有任何条文规定“禁止乘客在高铁上吃泡面”。法无禁止皆可为,高铁上可以吃泡面,是一种社会常识,也是一种大众默许。女子因孩子对泡面过敏怒怼吃泡面的男子,理由可以理解,但存在处理方式上的不当。

  事实上,孩子对泡面过敏,女子劝说对方不要吃泡面,以求得对方的理解和让位,不是唯一办法。比如,带孩子暂时离开吃泡面的男子,避免吸入泡面气味,也能避免矛盾激化。

  灵活处事,“己所欲,勿施于人”,是包容、克制的体现,也是一种道德要求。其结果或许无法双赢,但不会因为情绪激怒,谁也不服谁,导致双方尴尬。自己可以回避,却用高铁没有的规则要求别人满足自己的意愿,就是强词夺理了。

  当然,吃泡面的男子,在女子最初劝说时,其实可以到餐车或车厢接合部吃,体谅别人的难处,也是一种美德。

  坊间有话,大事讲原则,小事讲风格。在高铁上吃泡面是个人的小事,在小事面前,双方都要寻求最理想的办法。女乘客自以为是地怒怼吃泡面的旅客,小事变大,不值得仿效。一句话不能让人笑起来,反而让人跳起来,与其说是沟通技巧有问题,还不如说是心中只有自己,没有他人。

  □卞广春(职员)

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